Coach Kim offers two ways to change an overly critical spouse. Her advice may surprise you: You can't really change other people — but you can encourage them to want to change themselves.

Know your husband’s preference. It may be easier to sit side-by-side; and it may help to hold hands, for that tactile reminder that you’re on the same side, even when you’re angry.

If, like many women, you feel an urgent need for at least some conversation, then there are a few things you can do to encourage your husband to talk to you a bit more. Be honest about what you want.

Working mom Tiffany Dufu has come up with a way to “have it all”: Stop trying to do everything herself and get her spouse to do more. “I expect less from myself and more from my husband ...

But just because the excitement has slowed down doesn’t mean the love has to slow down with it. Here are 11 things you can do to get your husband to fall in love with you more and more every day.

If your husband is less than inclined to do his fair share around the house, we have a few tips to get him to help out that will make you both happy.